ds； green grass grows。
I will remember the ancient law of averages and I will bend it to my good。 I will persist with knowledge that each failure will increase my chance for success at the next attempt。 Each nay I hear will bring me closer to the sound of yea。 Each frown I meet only prepares me for the smile to e。 Each misfortune I encounter will carry in it the seed of tomorrow’s good luck。 I must have the night to appreciate the day。 I must fail often to succeed only once。
I will try； and try； and try again。 Each obstacle I will consider as a mere detour to my goal and a challenge to my profession。 I will persist and develop my skills as the mariner develops his； by learning to ride out the wrath of each storm。
I will not allow yesterday’s success to lull me into today’s placency； for this is the great foundation of failure。 I will forget the happenings of the day that is gone； whether they were good or bad； and greet the new sun with confidence that this will be the best day of my life。 So long as there is breath in me； that long will I persist。 For now I know one of the greatest principles of success： if I persist long enough I will win。
I will persist。 I will win。
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别人其实是你的一面镜子
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第一次见到某人时，在第一瞬间，你的脑海里会形成一个印象。你对他人的反应，其实就像你如何看待自己的晴雨表，更多的是反映出你自己，而不是其他人。你不可能真正喜欢或讨厌他人的某个方面，除非它反射出你对自身某方面的喜好。通常，我们靠近与自己类似的人，而那些展示出我们自身某个不喜欢的方面的人，往往令我们讨厌。
所以，你以他人为镜，能更清楚地折射出你对自我价值的感受。反过来，对于你不认同的人，你也能以之为镜，显露出对自身不满意的方面。
要与他人和睦相处，你必须学会容忍。你要从根本上转变视角，不去评判别人，而去不断地反省自身，而这是一个巨大的挑战。你的任务是，以你对别人作出的所有的决定、评判为线索，来改进和完善自我。
最近，我与一位客户一起吃午饭，他吃饭的样子实在令我很反感。我的第一反应就是：他粗鲁无礼，吃饭的样子令人恶心。当我意识到自己正评判他时，便停下来，扪心自问是什么感受。被人看到与这么个张着嘴咀嚼、大声擤鼻涕的人在一起，我发现自己感到很难堪。我还发现自己很在乎餐馆里其他人对我的看法，这让我感到很惊讶。
记住，你对他人的评判并不意味着你就不会像他那样。比如，仅仅因为我评判那位客户粗鲁无礼，并不能保证我永远都不会有像他那样的行为。同样，如果我容忍他的行为，也并不会因此突然张嘴咀嚼。
假如你用这种方式走进生活，你就能同时以你最不满的人，和你最尊敬、最爱的人为镜，指引你发现自身的缺陷，同时欣赏自己的最佳品质。
Others Are Only Mirrors of You
Anonymous
The first time you meet someone； in the first moment you form an impression in your mind of that person。 Your reactions to other people； however； are really just barometers for how you perceive yourself。 Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others。 You cannot really love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself。 We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike。
Therefore； you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly your own feelings of self…worth。 Conversely； you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself。
To coexist peacefully with others； you will need to learn tolerance。 A big challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a lifelong exploration of yourself。 Your task is to assess all the decisions； judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and bee whole。
I recently had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners。 My first reaction was to judge him as offensive and his table manners as disgusting。 When I noticed that I was judging him； I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling。 I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose。 I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me。
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you being like him。 Just because I judged my lunch partner as offensive does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him。 In the same way； extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open。
When you approach life in this manner； those with whom you have the greatest grievances as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors； guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality。
生命的启示（1）
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施与别人尽可能多的东西，并要欣然而为之。
牢记你最爱的诗歌。
不要相信你所听来的一切，也不要耗尽你所拥有的一切，更不要将时间都浪费在睡眠上。
说“我爱你”时，要满怀诚意。
说“对不起”时，要注视对方的眼睛。
至少在订婚半年后再结婚。
要笃信一见钟情。
对别人的梦想不妄加嘲讽，没有梦想的人不会拥有很多。
全心投入地去爱，或许你会受到伤害，可是，这却是使生活完整的唯一途径。
意见相悖时，要公正地争论，切不可大吵大嚷。
不要以一个人的亲戚来评判此人。
说话语速宜慢，但反应要快。
当有人问及你不想回答的问题时，要笑问对方：“为何想知道答案？”
谨记：不朽的爱情和伟大的成就要冒巨大风险才可获得。
要多打电话问候父母。
听到某人打喷嚏时，要说：“上帝保佑你。”
失败时，要记着吸取教训。
铭记3R原则，即：尊重自己，尊重他人，对自己的行为负责。
不可因小事而伤害友谊。
一旦意识到自己犯了错误，就要及时采取措施予以补救。
接听电话要保持微笑，因为对方可以通过你的声音感受到你的热情。
与有共同语言的人结为夫妻，那样在你年老时，就会发觉有共同的话题比其他任何事情都更为重要。
给自己留些独处的时间。
勇于改变，但切不可放弃你的价值观。
记住：有时沉默是最好的回答。
多读书，少看电视。
过一种优质而高尚的生活，那样，当你逐渐老去，回首往事时，才会再次体味到生命的意义。
相信上帝，但要锁好你的车。
爱的氛围对一个家是何等重要，努力营造一个温馨和睦的家吧。
与至爱的人意见相左时，要恰当处理当前事态。
不要总翻旧账，过去的就让它过去吧。
要透过现象看事情的本质。
经常祈祷，它会使你力量倍增。
不要打断别人对你的溢美之言。
管好自己的事儿。
不可相信睁眼接受你亲吻的人。
一年当中，去一次你从未去过的地方。
倘若你发了财，要在有生之年用这些钱去帮助别人。
这是财富最伟大的满足。
谨记：塞翁失马，焉知非福？
谨记：伟大的友情往往都是付出的多，而索取的少。
判断一个人成功与否，要将他的办事能力与实际结果予以比较；而不是将他与别人作比较。
要想得到爱情和食粮，就要不吝舍弃。
Instructions for Life
Anonymous
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully。
Memorize your favorite poem。
Don’t believe all you hear； spend all you have or sleep all you want。
When you say； “I love you”； mean it。
When you say； “I’m sorry”； look the person in the eye。
Be engaged at least six months before you get married。
Believe in love at first sight 。
Never laugh at anyone’s dreams。 People who don’t have dreams don’t have much。
Love deeply and passionately。 You might ge